Thanksgiving message from our Partner church

The American Thanksgiving Day goes back to 1620. It was then that the settlers who emigrated to America arrived in the New World. The harsh winter has decimated them, and only 102 have survived the winter. They were lucky because the Indians, who had seen their misfortune, gave them the skills of local hunting and crop production. They did this so the settlers could have a rich harvest next fall.

Dear friends, Thanksgiving is a day to give thanks to many people and things:

  • It is a day to give thanks to the idea of ​​friendship which saved the lives of the first settlers. Let’s give credit to the 102 people who endured the first American winter and who have blossomed into the American society and community we know today.
  • We thank the families. The warmth of the family stove has protected those immigrants, as well as us, so that we can be a valuable part of our community by committing ourselves to others.
  • We thank the children. Those who lived in both difficult or richer circumstances and who have been the embodiment of the American dream. Let’s give thanks for the children to be born who carry on our society and will be a valuable part of our culture.
  • We thank the parents. Parents are brave men and women who dare to give birth to children and who sacrifice for their children to make their life better.
  • We give thanks for the song. It is the music, whose words comforts us in sorrow and excites us with joy.
  • We give thanks for the bread. Bread is not just the nourishment we place on our tables, but the life-giving food that so many in the world lack. This bread is given to us by the providential God.
  • We give thanks for the water. Water keeps us clean, quenches our thirst, and is one of the gifts without which there would be no life on earth.
  • We give thanks for the feeling of love. It is this love that binds us together to remove borders and oceans and allows us to be one in the spiritual peace of love.
  • We give thanks for life. Life is everyone’s personal property. Do not play with it; it must be taken seriously. Life needs to be lived.

At this moment, we are gratefully thanking you for everything. For not only what we mentioned above but for many other things not listed. We are grateful to the good God and for the friendship and love we have between us.

Rev. Kelemen Szabolcs
Szentegyháza
October 29, 2019


Partner Church Presentation on October 20

The Transylvania Partner Church Committee would like to invite YOU to a presentation of our June trip to our partner church in Szentegyhaza Transylvania, which is in Romania.  For more about the presentation and luncheon, click here.


Host needed for Transylvania minister, family in June

The Transylvania Partner Church Committee is requesting assistance from members of our congregation next June during the General Assembly to host Rev Elöd Szabó, his wife Katalin (Kata) and two children. For more information, click here.

 

 


Hungarian Youth Folk Dance Group Performances

COME JOIN IN THE FUN!

The “Wild Roses Folk Dance Group”, is a native Hungarian Youth Folk Dance Group from Székelykeresztúr, in the Transylvanian region of Romania. Members of our church visiting Transylvania earlier this year saw the performance and loved it!  They’re coming to Concord, MA…join us!  Click here for more details.

 


Thanksgiving wishes from Providence

Of course, autumn is the harvest time all around the world.  The relationship between our two church communities is similar to the harvest.  We must sow the seeds of love.  This is the easy part – harvesting the love that has been sown requires much work, care, and understanding; thereby building a strong and persistent relationship.  This can be cumbersome, as we live far away from each other and our language is not the same.

This summer I have seen the fruit of our budding relationship.  I have seen the love of our communities and we have enjoyed your generosity.  The seeds are sown, but there is still room for growth.  Our relationship with you will continue to flourish.

I want to express my good wishes and the good wishes of our community for the successful harvests of the cultivated land and our beautiful relationship.  We always include you in our thoughts and prayers.

Peace be with you.

Yours,

Elizabeth Lerner Maclay
Pastor


Photos from First U group’s visit to partner church

 

History of the Partnership

In 2008, our congregation voted to establish a partnership with a Unitarian Church in Szentegyhaza, Romania.  The church is in a small town nestled near the Carpathian Mountains in an area called Transylvania, once a part of Hungary.

Members of our congregation have visited our sister church three times. We have crisscrossed Transylvania, learning about its history and the founding of the Unitarian Church there in 1568. Members of the Szentegyhaza church have hosted us in their homes and treated us with warm hospitality.

We have participated in their worship services and heard their bells ring from the bell tower we helped to build. You can see gifts they have given us used in our services and on display in our memorial garden. This ongoing relationship has created a special feeling towards our sister congregation and a deep appreciation of our shared religious heritage.

For more information about this our partnership, click here: Why We Have a Partner Church in Transylvania.

Timeline:

1930  First Congregational, now First Unitarian starts a partnership with a village in Transylvania.

1945  WWII causes contact to cease. The fall of Romania to Communism further suspends the relationship.

2004  First U meets with Unitarian Universalist Partner Church Council to discuss reestablishing a partnership in Transylvania.

2006  First Visit – First U members travel to Transylvania to explore possibilities of a partnership.

2008  Rev Kellerman and President Sandor Racz visit Providence, RI. First U congregation votes to establish a partnership with the Unitarian Church in Szentegyhaza.

2009  Second Visit to the Village.

2015  Third Visit to the Village.

Partner Church Visits

One of the keys to maintaining a strong relationship with our Partner Church is our visits with them. Everyone who travels to our sister church experiences a powerful friendship that seems to binds us together. The Szentegyhaza congregation always greets us with open hearted hospitality.  Their desire to show us their traditions, and their willingness to learn who we are and teach us who they are, is the hallmark of an open and enduring friendship.

This partnership is not about money or who can do what for whom.  It is about much more; once you are in it and experiencing the friendship, it becomes very personal. It is like swimming in a river.  You are immersed in it and must follow the current where it takes you. The partner church relationship gives us the opportunity to experience spirituality in the connections we make and the relationships we form with our Transylvanian Unitarian brothers and sisters.

Click on the  2006 Visit, 2012 Visit and 2015 Visit to find out more information on these interesting trips.

Various members of our congregation have visited our partners in Szentegyhaza. We usually plan our trips 6-12 months in advance. The trip usually starts in Kolozsvár, the city where the Unitarian Church headquarters resides. Each trip itinerary is different in some way.

There is a lot of Unitarian history in Transylvania and each trip has explored a different part of the country. There are many UNESCO World Heritage Sites in Transylvania, many with Unitarian connections, and our trips include visits to some of these sites.  The trip usually last 10 days; the first 5 days consists of a tour through the countryside.  Then we spend Thursday afternoon through Monday morning at our partner church.

The Village Experience

Each traveler experiences the hospitality of a member of the congregation in Szentegyhaza. This is the best part of the trip, a time where we get to know a family from the congregation. We sleep at their home or apartment, eat meals with them, and usually make a bond for life. The partner church hosts a number of events that showcase the area around Szentegyhaza. Come Sunday, We attend service and then eat a communal meal prepared in kettles over a wood fire in the church yard. The last days of the trip return us to Kolozsvár, where we catch a plane home, returning to America with wonderful memories and a new understanding of our faith.

Szentegyhaza Information

Szentegyhaza is located in Hargita County, Romania, an area that is predominately Hungarian speaking. It is the located near the Carpathian Mountains, at an elevation 2,800 feet.  There are a number of churches in the area, but this is the only Unitarian Church.  The church has about 300 members.

The Szentegyhaza congregation is a triple minority in Romania. First, they are Unitarians in a country that is predominantly Romanian Orthodox. Second, they are Hungarian speakers where the majority of the country speaks Romanian. And third, they identify themselves as Szeklers, a minority subset of Hungarians living in Romania.

The town is rural and does not have a lot of large businesses although it was home to a large steel factory, abandoned in the fall of communism. A number of the people in town farm for a living. Some herd their cows and are moved along village streets to nearby pastures in the morning and are brought back in the evening.  A number of people in the congregation are migrant workers, and spend long periods of time far from home. Consequently, the full congregation does not usually attend services on Sunday. However, church attendance is especially high during major holidays when the church is too small to accommodate everyone.

The congregation has been in existence for 25 years and was formed a few years after the Romanian Revolution of 1989 that toppled the Communist regime.

Click on The People of Szentegyhaza to learn more about the friends we have made over the last ten years.

Unitarian Universalist Partner Church Council

The Unitarian Universalist Association developed a support system for congregations that are interested in developing Partner Church relationships. Since 1993, the Unitarian Universalist Partner Church Council (UUPCC) has been developing these relationships. The UUPCC assists congregations in selecting partner churches around the world and has a travel office that helps congregations organize travels to their partner churches. Click on UUPCC for more information on this topic. The UUPCC is not just involved with partnerships in Transylvania but has supported relationships elsewhere. For more information on partnerships throughout the world, click on  newsletters .

Future Activities

Our congregation is considering a trip to our Partner Church in the early summer of 2019. The itinerary of the trip will be fine-tuned this winter, but it will begin in the “Unitarian Headquarters” of Transylvania, Kolozsvár.  We generally tour Transylvania for about 5-7 days. The trip is always includes a Thursday –to-Monday visit in Szentegyhaza where we are all spend time in home visits with our host families.

We are also making arrangements for the minister and his wife, Szabolcs and Eniko Kelemen, and their President, Zoltan Laszlo to come to our congregation in 2020 to help us celebrate our 300th Anniversary. The Transylvania delegation is now in the process of getting their passports for this trip.

Contact Us

If you have any questions about the Partner Church please contact Tom Getz or Janet Downing Taylor. They will be glad to talk with you to discuss any questions you may have.